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The Only Dating Advice You’ll Ever Need!
Do you have trouble in the dating world? Do you just wish you could find your perfect someone without all the complications of dating? Well… good luck with that! … Just kidding. The dating scene can become frustrating for all of us who’ve had our fair share of bad dates. So, maybe you just need a bit of advice to help you get the ball rolling again? We made this video to help you out!
We also made a video about the green flags on dating that you should know: https://youtu.be/ojz5i4yI3xw
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Long, J. (2013, May 13). 10 Dating Do’s and Don’ts From 6 Therapists. Psychology Today. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/finding-cloud9/201305/10-dating-dos-and-donts-6-therapists.
Manson, M. (2020, December 23). Every Successful Relationship Is Successful for the Same Exact Reasons. Mark Manson. https://markmanson.net/relationship-advice.
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according to statistics only a small percentage of you who watch our videos are actually subscribed so if you haven’t and at the end of the video you enjoy what you see do consider subscribing it would help a lot with youtube’s algorithm in promoting more of our mental health content thanks for being here hello psych2goers welcome back to our channel do you have trouble in the dating world do you just wish you could find your perfect someone without all the complications of dating well good luck with that just kidding the dating scene can become frustrating for all of us who have ever had our fair share of bad days so maybe you just need a bit of advice to help get the ball rolling again to help you out here is a list of the only dating advice you’ll ever need number one the most important thing respect you need to trust each other’s intentions how can you do so without a little respect healthy couples whose relationships last their secret is communication and respect for each other so if you notice your date is a bit disrespectful to you express that this is a problem or recognize that it might not work and remember to respect your date as well number two allow intimacy to progress naturally so you like someone a lot it’s only the first date but you can’t wait to tell them hold it right there while honesty is the best policy revealing how often you think about them may add too much unnecessary pressure on your first date you need to allow some room for the natural progression of intimacy take it slow take it easy and reveal how you feel but make sure not to reveal too much all at once it is just the first date after all number three don’t limit yourself to one type while some of us may think our perfect partner will meet all of our criteria we may be wrong and that idea is very possible so what could you be missing out on just because your date doesn’t like star wars as much as you doesn’t mean they can’t be the perfect match just because you share different interests doesn’t mean you won’t connect on a deeper level and just because they’re not tall and handsome doesn’t mean you couldn’t be attracted to them in the future if our type is always changing i guess we don’t really have one type do we number four communication is key most people say communication is one of the most important keys to a successful relationship that and respect are a great combo pack it’s important to be honest with who you’re dating if you’re a bit uneasy about something express it if you enjoyed your afternoon don’t try to play it cool or play hard to get instead tell them you enjoyed getting to know them be honest about who you are and how you feel as long as it’s not a bombardment of love confessions on your first date number five focus on who you are now early on in dating it’s a good idea to focus on the person you are now rather than discuss your past self it’s important for couples to know a bit about each other’s past but the time will come for that later those first couple of dates show them who you’ve become try not to talk too much about your mistakes or exes early on they’re here to get to know who you are now which brings us to number six don’t alter who you are important tip don’t try to pretend you’re someone who you’re obviously not if you think your date would love a handsome bad boy or a cool girl don’t show up wearing a leather jacket when your go-to is knitted sweaters if we alter our personality or style to fit our date’s expectations they’ll be attracted to someone who doesn’t really exist will only attract people who are compatible with someone else so those aviator glasses you picked out for this date stick to your prescriptions number seven don’t control the conversation it’s important for both dates to show interest in each other this means you shouldn’t spend the whole two hours just talking about your dreams and goals ask your date how they feel and give them time to ask you some questions too remember it’s about how both of you feel and if you’re compatible you’ll never get to know if they’re too compatible with you if all you do is talk about yourself number eight be with someone for the right reasons this should seem like easy advice to take but many individuals get lost in other reasons for being in a relationship maybe your friends and colleagues pressured you into a certain kind of relationship maybe your family expected you to be with this kind of partner whatever the reason it’s important to evaluate why you’re with your partner is it because you’re truly happy around them that already sounds like a great start which advice will you take are you lost in the dating world or have you already found your special someone what was it about them that made you fall head over heels share with us in the comments down below if you found this video helpful don’t forget to click the like button and share this video with someone who may need some dating tips subscribe to psyc2go and hit the notification 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Hope this video help those who are in the dating field. Do you have other tips that aren't mentioned in the video? [EDITED] There is a typo in the video. Let see if you're paying attention to our video :P. Watch next 6 Green Flags on Dating You Should Know https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ojz5i4yI3xw
Just be sure to set ground rules for yourself to follow when start dating. Dating should be fun and not frustrating, so be sure to find someone with similar interests. Remember, we arent a connect to just anyone. Set some boundaries to protect yourself.
I'll never find anyone. I can and do form deep loving friendships with people. But they never want to date me. Nobody is attracted to me in THAT way. It is hopeless.
I hate how jealous I am seeing two anthropomorphic characters cuddling (4:30). It all makes me so depressed.
The real only tip about love is just don't bother. I will not breakup with anyone ever again. It just hurts. Love is unnecessary pain
I'm tired of those golden advices. I WILL DIE LONELY, I can't change that, I tried evertything I could, now I just accept it and wait for death, that's it.
Ok this is all great but requires someone to talk to me. Hasn't happened in 16 years. Only person I talk to is whoever I'm working with that day at work only.
Respect is my 1%❤
This seems.to be geared towards people that don't have a problem getting dates like me
The fact that nobody talks about forbidden books on Revandles is so insanee
Forbidden books on Revandles are the real mystery here, and we’re all silent?
1:52 😢
Then told me "we're moving too fast"
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My #Behave_Union was #September2024
#jumping_The_Broom 😏💪
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Sounds like good advice but I don't even know how and where to meet people so not sure I'll even get to implement these 😂
"well, good luck with that" got me 💀
The only advice, don't look for it, don't expect it and don't do it.
Very interesting video, good work, I'm getting desperate. But yesterday a yt video jumped out at me, so I happily watched it, I didn't give anything for trying, it's only two minutes long, but I think I'll try it, what's wrong with it, the channel was called something like "real experience" or somehow. It really looked interesting that strategy. hold on guys
I have recently in love with a guy who is not at all my ideal types, not that handsome, not that tall, but he gives me feeling of safety, warmth, and caring, and that is something that wins my heart, and our chemicals seem to go well with each other; He somehow manages to see through my high wall and intimidate persona to a caring and warm side of me. So I agree with #3, when you find the one, all those types are meaningless, nothing else is matter. Just enjoy courting and let affection grows naturally.
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There's a book called Casanova Optimization of Attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
If I had seen my-present-day-self a year ago I wouldn't have believed my eyes. I became a closer friend with one girl. We were in the same class since the 3rd one and now we're in the middle of 11th. We started learning our waltz dance for our graduation event and we started communicating more: sharing how we feel about the dance, what do each of us thinks about one another. And one day, while we were dancing, she was the one to ask me out for a date. I was speechless as it hadn't ever even crossed my mind of such outcome of events. At first I felt awkward as I wasn't the talkative type. And the funny thing is – she wasn't either. But I noticed how she tried and put a lot of effort to get to know me better. And I appreciated it. It has changed me. I can say confidently that she has improved me as a person.
We've been to the cinema, to the ice rink and just strolling through the night streets. And in those moments I finally felt my heart beating. I had been a hollow shell before that moment she decided to ask me out. And now I wonder: what the person would I be if she backed out? At the very least, I can state that I would have been the same. Hollow, careless, purposeless but arrogant.
Anyway, literally yesterday I had my first lip kiss. This girl turned out to be a whole different person once I got to know her. And I would say, from my experience and the priceless advices my parents had given me, it's better to be yourself, genuine and empathetic. I'm not a dating guru or anything – I've still got a TON of things to learn from this relationship. But I cherish every moment I'd spent together with this girl and I want to bring joy to her life along with my life experiences, lessons I've learnt, emotions and thoughts. And I must say, I'm lucky that she's genuinely caring and literally perfect. It's my love experience on easy mode basically but I can't express how important for me it truly is. Priceless.
Don’t do it. You will regret it.
1:52 yes blue flower is must, I'm not dating one without blue flower growing out of their head
The girl I like is sweet funny believes in God and is always kind to me I have only know her for about a year but I still hope she is the one
Dude, just be hot and everything is easy.
When someone is hungry they usually grab the wrong thing at the supermarket
Waiting to be attracted to someone is a terrible thing to do to your potential future partner. If you aren’t attracted to them then move on . Don’t have them waiting
If she dont like star wars memes its not a good match we all know that.
She light up my heart and my life from a down spin to oblivion i care very much for her but i come out wrong
I’m watching this knowing damn well I can’t even talk to her.
I have a pretty broad checklist.
1. Must be a woman.
2. Must be human.
3. Must not be a minor.
I don't want to be pursued by any content creator or whatever by just to do with their content and that's it. Thank goodness I'm glad I'm not being pursued in that way not even sexually with any content creator or not the person is sleeping with someone else that is a hell no who is in my account right now legally I have a right to know
Who else is here because of chairblind's "Blasting inappropriate songs in the library pranks part 2" 😂
Thanks!
Nah… Looking for money
5. Im just a guy that already had 2 girls and now im single again didn't go well with them both. So as a 16 years old guy my advice is find the best one that doesn't have to match you, won't leave you and will be with you all time. I did a mistake now im lonely, and I feel empty. I almost totally lost attraction to others. I don't know why but I'm not likely see myslef in relationship now. And I dont see in future. I hope i'll find the perfect one but it can happen in like 2-5 years.
I found my special someone. I got overwhelmed on a date, he took control of the situation for me in a gentle respectful manner. It will probably be the most incredible thing that's happened to me for most of my life. Just, having someone take care of me.. in the perfect way.
I can’t even land a date to begin with
#1 would filter out majority of American girls. Racism taught me that. Not even going to go further.
Guys i think im the one who has to say this but relationships aren't real 😬 we kinda made it all up as a prank to make yall feel letf out
28 year old chronically lonely sick and twisted individual looking for love ❤️ hmu
I've just hit the point in dont belive love exists
I think in today's world there is too much advice on what you need to be. Self growth is important and you can aways change for the better but don't change something about yourself just because you think people are attracted to a different kind of personality. Maybe some girls like more confident guys but there will be people that see the softer side of you and think it's cute.
3:21 i will airdrop your house and TO BAD IM WEARING THE LEATHER JACKET