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Today you’re going to learn a step by step way to deal with anxiety.
Anxiety can be really uncomfortable, it can mess with your life, and our natural tendency is to avoid stuff that makes us anxious, but that can make your life worse- procrastinating assignments, being afraid to leave the house, avoiding social activities, keeping yourself distracted all the time so you don’t have to notice your anxious thoughts…you get the idea.
But here’s the thing, you don’t just have to cope with anxiety. You can learn to process through anxiety, to resolve it and change your relationship to it. Let me show you how. In this video we’ll use three examples to show you a step by step way to process anxiety. We’re going to talk about:
1- Bob, who has social anxiety- He feels anxious and uncomfortable around people he constantly worries about what he says and what other people are thinking about him.
2- Jane who experiences general anxiety-She just feels anxious and jittery much of the day for no apparent reason. And
3- Fred who has event anxiety- Fred is really anxious about an upcoming presentation that he has to give at school, it’s a big part of his grade and really needs to get a good score.
And we’re going to use these three examples as a way to actually put into practice the emotion processing model, those in-depth skills that help you resolve anxiety instead of just cope with it.
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Hi everyone. I'm Emma
McAdam, a licensed therapist, and today you're going to learn a
step-by-step way to deal with anxiety. Anxiety can be really uncomfortable. It can
mess with your life. And our natural tendency is to avoid stuff that makes us anxious, but
that can make your life worse. So things like procrastinating assignments, being afraid to
leave the house, avoiding social activities, or keeping yourself distracted all the
time so that you don't have to notice your anxious thoughts. I mean, you get the idea, right?
Anxiety messes your life up. But here's the thing: you don't just have to cope with anxiety; you can
learn to process through anxiety to resolve it and change your relationship to it. So let me show
you how. In this video we're going to use three examples to show you a step-by-step way to process
anxiety. We're going to talk about Bob, who has social anxiety. He feels uncomfortable around
people, and he constantly worries about what he says and what other people are thinking about him.
We're going to talk about Jane, who experiences general anxiety. She just feels jittery and
anxious much of the day for no apparent reason. And we're going to talk about Fred, who has
event anxiety. So Fred's really anxious about an upcoming presentation that he has to give at
school, and it's a big part of his grade and he really needs to get a good score. So throughout
this video we're going to use these three examples as a way to actually put into practice the emotion
processing model. These are the in-depth skills that help you resolve anxiety instead of just
cope with it. And if you want a free download teaching the five steps of how to process
emotions, just check out the link in the description. So the very first step of
dealing with anxiety is to observe it. There's a couple ways we can observe our
emotions, a couple of skills that you can practice to get better at this. So you can start by asking
yourself, “What am I feeling right now? What are my thoughts saying right now? What sensations
am I feeling in my body?” A lot of times with my clients I'll ask them, you know, “Where are you
feeling this anxiety? What does it feel like?” and they'll say things like, “Cold hands” or “A
tight stomach” or “Tense shoulders.” Right? And I'm going to encourage you to just notice it. Give
a little bit of attention to what's going on as you feel anxiety because your natural tendency is
to immediately avoid or suppress these feelings, and Freud said, “Feelings buried alive never die.”
So trying not to feel anxious is probably going to make you more anxious. It's like stuffing anxiety
rocks into a backpack and carrying them around instead of looking at them and being like, “I
don't need this” and setting it to the side. Okay. So for example, with general anxiety,
Jane could observe her sensations like this: she could say something like, “Oh, hmm. I
feel jittery and anxious and I don't know why” or “I feel butterflies in my stomach. I feel
tight in my chest.” Now, at first when we pay attention to these sensations it may make them
a little louder or a little more uncomfortable, but but try it. You may be surprised when
we acknowledge our sensations, when we lean into them, we can actually create more space
around them. And you'll learn that you can feel them and that your body's okay and you can
handle it. And when you have this experience, those sensations and those feelings, they often
settle down. Another thing you can observe – so Jane can also practice observing her thoughts. So
she thinks, “Oh, I wish this would just go away.” But when she notices that she's the one having
that thought, she can say, “I'm having the thought that I wish this would go away.” This skill
is called defusion. It's separating yourself from your thoughts and your feelings. Now, you are
not your thoughts or feelings; you're the person having thoughts. You're the person who's
experiencing emotions. So this skill is all about giving yourself a little bit of space
between yourself and your thoughts and feelings. It can also help to name your emotion,
to be as specific as possible. So you could say, “I feel anxious,” but if you get
more specific you might say, “I feel apprehensive or excited or nervous or dread, scared,
frightful, unsettled, worried, concerned, peeved, right? The more specific you get, the more
power you have over your emotions. So with social anxiety, Bob can say, “I feel nervous about going
to the party” or “I feel scared that I won't know what to say.” It's important to follow up the word
“feel” with an emotion word, not a thought word. So for example, saying, “I feel like everyone
will judge me” – that's a thought, not a feeling. I feel scared that everyone will judge me –
that's an emotion word. Now, you can work with thoughts too. Right? And we're going to talk a
lot about that in the explore section. It's just, we can really benefit from getting really specific
about which is which. Thoughts and emotions are two separate things. So going back to thoughts:
if Bob works to notice his automatic thoughts, he could say, “I worry that I won't know anyone
there” or “I just don't want to go because I think everyone is looking at me.” When Fred
works on the observing step, he might say, “Oh, I've got to give that presentation next week, and
I've got a pit in my stomach. I'm worried I won't sleep well. I'm worried that I'm going to do a
bad job.” So he's just going to notice, like, “What are my worries?” Now, an important part
of observing emotions is letting go of judgment. So instead of saying, “This anxiety is awful.
This anxiety is terrible. This is horrible,” we're gonna describe the emotion instead. So instead
of labeling it as good or bad, we're gonna say something like, “Oh, this is uncomfortable. This
is a little painful,” and remind yourself that it's okay to have feelings, that just because
they're uncomfortable doesn't mean they're bad; it just means that you care. Okay. Now, if
it feels like I'm moving a little fast here, that's because I just described five
skills in about a minute. Right? Noticing, naming, exploring body sensations,
cognitive defusion, and a non-judgmental attitude. Now, if you've never seen any of the videos from
my emotion processing course, then this might seem a little bit overwhelming because this video is
an overview of the process. But you can learn each of these skills in a separate in-depth video,
and I've got a nice little bullet-pointed list that you can download so that you can reference
it and walk yourself through the steps when you need to. So just, I mean, check out the link below
if you want that, that list. Okay, so that's the first step in emotion processing. That's observe.
Okay. So the second step in processing emotions like anxiety is willingness. Willingness is
the secret ingredient in emotion processing. If you want to work through emotions you
need to choose to be willing to feel them, and this is a skill that you can develop. So when
we feel an uncomfortable emotion like anxiety, most of us just have this instinctive reaction
to avoid it, to escape it, to just run amok, to keep busy or keep distracted, and this keeps
us stuck in a constant level of anxiety because you never face it. The lie anxiety tells us
or the message it's actually trying to tell us is that you're in danger. But a lot of times
that's not true because you're actually safe. And avoiding that anxiety keeps you stuck in that
danger response, it keeps you stuck in anxiety. So when you take the time to sit with anxiety.
to lean into it, you'll realize that the vast majority of time you are actually safe. And if
there is some action you need to take to get safe or solve a problem, distraction or avoidance
won't help you there either. So distraction and avoidance make you more anxious, and willingness
is the opposite of that. So let's practice some willingness right now. I want you to slow yourself
down just a little bit. Take a slow breath and get grounded in the present
moment. That means, you know, feel your feet on the floor or
the chair pressing into you. Pay attention to your bodily sensations,
and let yourself sit with them for a moment without needing to make those feelings
go away or distract yourself from them. Now, if in the moment of anxiety,
if you're too upset to do this, then the other thing you can do to practice
willingness is you can try exaggerating your emotions in your body. We're not trying to force
ourselves to calm down; we're trying to allow ourselves to experience what we're feeling in the
present moment. So if calming down wasn't helping, let's try leaning in. So if you're feeling
jittery, let yourself shake. Exaggerate those shakes a little bit. Right? If you're
feeling tense, tighten your muscles a little bit. Another way to practice willingness is to
listen to some music that expresses how you feel. And another one of my favorite exercises
is the brain-dump exercise. You just write down everything in your head, and you put on
a piece of paper. Some other things you can try, I mean, if you can do it in a non-forceful way, is
to just practice some more of those nervous-system calming activities. And I've got videos on these
on YouTube. Right? Slow breathing, the yawn, shake it out, or progressive muscle relaxation.
Now, this is especially relevant with general anxiety. So general anxiety is often a buildup
of tiny little bits of anxiety over time that aren't addressed or processed, and then you just
feel anxious all the time but you don't know why. So with Jane, her inclination is to just keep
avoiding her anxiety, and she does this by watching a lot of TikToks and spending a lot of
time on Netflix. She tries not to think about it. She, if she's feeling anxious she'll eat
something and and, you know, she'll just try any small, distracting things you can do to make
it go away. But with general anxiety it actually helps a lot more to pause for a moment, to turn
everything off, to close your eyes and say, oh, you know, go back to observing, “What what am
I feeling right now? Where is it in my body?” Okay, let me give you another example of
willingness with Fred. So Fred's worried about this upcoming presentation, but the more anxious
he feels he's more likely to procrastinate, to avoid his studies, or to just run around trying
to anxiously study and prepare to like an extreme degree. But if you're running amok, it doesn't
let the thinking part of your brain turn on. So he needs to find a way to slow himself
down and and choose to be willing to feel some anxiety around the situation. So
first, I mean, he could just say, “Hey, this stress response can help me prepare”
instead of judging it as like, “This anxiety is so terrible. I can't handle it.” Like, “Oh, you
know, this stress response, it's gonna help me be motivated to work on my presentation. It's okay to
feel a little bit of stress. It's okay to feel a little bit of excitement about this presentation.”
Another thing Fred could try is just going on a walk without his phone. Like, this this lets his
body move through some of those stress hormones and perhaps clear his mind a little bit. And
and then he could sit down and do a brain dump, you know. If he were to write this down on
paper he could say, “Oh, I have a test tomorrow. I've studied this much. I still need to study
this much. Here are the areas I feel confident in. Here are the areas I don't,” etc. He just
puts it all down on paper. So in this way he can face his anxiety, but from a more centered,
intentional approach. Now, with social anxiety, the treatment's actually not very complicated,
but it does require a lot of willingness. So willingness would look like Bob putting himself
in a social situation and noticing that he's feeling anxious but not leaving. So basically, Bob
has to change the rules in his head. The old rules said, you know, “Don't go if it makes you feel
uncomfortable,” or “This is terrible if you feel anxious when you're out.” And the new rules say,
“Oh, it's okay to have feelings and sensations. I can totally allow myself to go to this party
and feel a little anxious” and still go, you know. So he says something to himself like, “Bring it
on, anxiety. I can feel anxious, and I can still go to the party. I can handle feeling this way.
It's okay to feel anxious. Let's do this.” Now, by choosing to be willing to feel, he does two
things. So number one, he changes his relationship with anxiety. He drops that struggle to never feel
anxious, and that actually is going to decrease his anxiety over time. And then the second thing
he does is he actually shows up at the party, which gives him a chance to be around people. This
gives his brain a chance to learn that it's safe, and it's actually going to decrease his anxiety
over time. Okay. That takes us to our next step, which is number three: explore. Exploring your
anxiety is all about making it clear and concrete. So anxiety is like a smoke alarm. It's a
loud, uncomfortable signal that indicates you might be in danger. But 99% of the time your
smoke alarm goes off because you were cooking bacon or you just took a long, hot shower. So
when your smoke alarm goes off in your house, you don't normally bring in the fire hoses or,
you know, immediately start hosing down your house. You first just check to see if there is an
actual fire. If there is a fire, heck yes run from the house, call the fire department, turn on the
hoses. But most of the time there isn't a fire; you're safe. You just made bacon. So you can
press that mute button on your smoke alarm. Now, anxiety is like a smoke alarm. Sometimes we
think the loud signal of anxiety is the problem, the anxiety is the actual dangerous thing. So we
try to shut off the signal or get rid of anxiety altogether or cope with it or, you know, sell the
house. Right? Like, throw our lives away to avoid anxiety. But anxiety isn't dangerous; it's just
a signal asking us to clarify if we're safe or not. So with anxiety, we can really benefit
from exploring it. And and that looks like really checking to see if your anxiety is helpful.
Is your anxiety helping you be safer? So we clarify. We ask, “Are you in physical danger right
now? Or are you actually safe in this moment?” And then we try to make it as concrete as
possible instead of vague. So we write about it. We talk about it. We make it concrete. We
diagram it. Right? Another part of exploring is to explore our thoughts because our thoughts
often convince us that we're in danger. So what thoughts might you be having that are making
your anxiety worse? Are you catastrophizing? Are you thinking in black and white? Are you mental
filtering? Are you only noticing the negative? So, exploring what's behind your anxiety can help
you know if you should take action to get safe or just take steps to soothe your overactive
alarm system. So let's use social anxiety here. It's easy to explore social anxiety because it's
often centered around a lot of fearful thoughts. So Bob thinks, “Everyone will judge me, and their
judgments will be negative for sure, and if they did it would be catastrophic.” Right? You can
see how thinking this way in the most extreme way is going to make you really anxious. So in the
exploring part of anxiety we have to question these thoughts. Is it likely that everyone will
judge you? Is it realistic? Would you survive if they did? Right? The answer is most likely
most people aren't judging you. Even if they did, you would probably be okay. Like, it's not gonna
kill you if someone judges you. Okay. So this is where we also explore our unwritten rules. So with
social anxiety you might not realize that you have an internal rule that goes something like, “I
have to be perfect or else I must withdraw from everyone.” Unwritten rules like this set you
up for failure. Okay, so let's do another one. Let's talk about Jane and her general anxiety.
So in the explore step of emotion processing, Jane can explore what's going on in her life
that's adding up to this sense of anxiety. What what little things are you dealing with or not
dealing with it? And she could write them down. Now, this is super important. Right? Don't just
think about them; write them down. So when when Jane sits and writes them down, it sounds kind
of like this: “Bills, kids, work, friends, too much coffee and not enough sleep, too much
sugar and not enough exercise, trying to do too many social events, trying to make everyone happy,
never saying no,” etc. etc. Right? So sometimes general anxiety is about life management. It's
about taking on too many things and trying to do everything for everyone and then getting
overwhelmed. So by writing these things down, you can see how you're spending your time, and
you can see the things that are left unfinished. And and, you know, perhaps Jane would create a
plan to start setting better boundaries. So I, like, I really mean, I think that if people with
general anxiety just write it all down and then choose one thing to resolve or let go of or say no
to, they're going to decrease their anxiety a ton. Now, you'll notice that this part of processing
is a lot more complicated or detailed than the other steps, and this is often the area we
spend the most amount of time in therapy on. We, you know, clarify and explore your options.
We make them concrete, and we clear up faulty thinking. But these are things you can do
on your own, and a lot of these skills are in my emotion processing course. Okay. Number
four. Now that we have observed our emotions, we've felt them, we've explored them and what's
behind them, now we're ready to clarify and choose what we're going to do about them. So
the exploring work laid the foundation for us to clarify what we want to do about anxiety.
Now, there's two essential skills here in this step: the locus of control activity and the values
activity. So with the locus of control activity, you separate what is and what isn't in
your realm of control. It's really simple, but it's a powerful way to clarify anxiety. So
with performance anxiety, Fred he can't control whether he feels anxious, he can't control other
people's reactions, he can't directly control the outcome of his grade, but he can control how much
he prepares. He can research, he can practice, he can ask for feedback, he can choose to be
willing to feel anxiety and call it excitement, and all of these indirectly influence
the outcome, which is his grades. Okay. Step four is also where we get ready for
action by using a values activity to clarify what's most important to you. So values activity
helps you know where to put your energy and focus. So Bob could ask himself, “Why do I care
about people and friends even though parties are sometimes uncomfortable?” Or he could
ask, you know, “Am I willing to engage in life even if it's uncomfortable?” Basically he's
asking himself, “What's most important to me? Is it most important to me to be home alone or
is it most important to me to go be with people?” Jane could ask, you know, “What are the most
stressful parts of my life?” and also ask, “What are the things that are keeping me busy that
aren't important?” And, you know, by clarifying what she values, what she wants her life to be
about, you know, perhaps she decides to say no to a couple of extra responsibilities at work so
that she has extra time for her husband or kids. Or maybe she carves out some time
for herself to practice self-care and rest and relax. So by taking a big-picture look,
like, “What do I want my life to be about? How do I want my life to be going?” you can get a lot of
clarity about what to keep and what to let go of. Okay. Fred, Fred could say, “Oh, is it worth it
for me to give that presentation even though it's hard?” Or he could say, “Oh, am I willing to spend
less time with friends so that I can work hard on that presentation?” Right? He values his grades,
he values his friends. And values clarification is asking, you know, “What do I really
care about most in life? Do I care most about comfort or people? You know. Is avoiding
things more important to me than facing them?” And basically that leads us into the last step of
processing anxiety. So step five is act or accept. So we can spend all day thinking about anxiety. We
can be willing to feel anxiety. We can explore it. We can clarify it. But if we don't choose to act,
our lives are still probably going to stink. So here's where you, you get to choose to act or to
accept. Now, with many situations we can find one small thing to change. So if that's the case, just
plan some action that lines up with your values. I mean this could be something like, “Oh, I'm
going to get more sleep” or “I'm going to organize one area in my house” or “I'm gonna set one
boundary.” But in some situations there's nothing you can do to change the situation, or at
the very least there's nothing helpful you can do. Now, we can always find some way to run amok,
you know to bang our head against the wall, to try to force other people to change, but
it's often better to choose to let it go. So in this step it's all about, you know, we we've
already clarified what we can and can't change, and now we're choosing what are we going to
act on and what are we going to accept and when we need to accept things that are out of our
control. In this case, you know, we make space for our emotions. You you can handle feeling
things. You can get really good at feeling. You can handle having emotions. You can also practice.
When you're in the acceptance part of this you can practice uh some body-calming exercises. Okay. So
what does this look like? So with social anxiety, Bob asks, you know, “What do I really care
about? Do I want to have friends? Do I want to be friendly? Am I healthy without them?”
So most people experience some social anxiety, and actually caring about people comes
with worrying if you said something mean or something like that. Right? So are you willing
to engage with life, with with friends even if it makes you uncomfortable? Are you willing to
interact with people even if you're not perfect, even if maybe you don't say the right thing?
Right? Can you engage with people on a real, vulnerable, human level? You know. I think deep
down most people value this real connection, and making the choice to live your life, to love
and to connect with others is more valuable than sitting home because you're afraid you'll mess up
and be judged. If you value living life, you make it a small choice, like, “Oh, I will go to the
party this week” or “I will call up Amy and ask her if she wants to hang out,” etc. Right? So this
step is all about just choosing some small action that you're gonna take, and then take it. Okay.
So let's look at the general anxiety example. Okay. So Jane has been spending a lot of time
trying to distract herself from her anxiety, but after exploring it Jane realizes, you know,
“I'm stressed out because my room is a mess and I can't pay my bills.” So she says, “I'm gonna
clean my room, and then I'm going to ask my brother about how to budget.” These are actual
problems that need actual action. Right? Don't just cope with the anxiety; resolve the problem,
and the anxiety around it will go away. With most situations we benefit from combining action
with acceptance. So with performance anxiety, Fred can't make the anxiety go away, and it
often makes it worse to try to not feel anxious. So even I, like sometimes I get really shaky
when I do public speaking, and if I try to force myself to calm down it usually makes me feel
more anxious. So instead I say something like, “Oh, you know what, it's worth it for me to try
to help others, so I'm willing to accept that it also comes with some anxiety.” And and this
just means that I care. So I make space for those emotions and sensations, and I'm going to
choose to feel my feelings and act on my values, and I'm going to make the video anyway, or
I'm going to do the presentation anyway. This is how you process anxiety. And just so you
know, the vast majority of the time when we face our fears, when we keep showing up, we go to the
party, we take the test, we give a presentation, then our brain learns, “You survived. That
wasn't actually dangerous.” And most of the time your brain actually decreases your
anxiety over time when you face your fears. But even if it doesn't, Fred, Jane, and Bob, and
you, you're still living the life that you value. So even if it's uncomfortable, Bob still sees
friends, Fred still does the presentation, and Jane cleans her room. And because they're living
their values, their lives are rich and meaningful. You really can learn to process through anxiety,
and when you do, a lot of it will resolve. That smoke alarm won't keep blaring all the time. But
having anxiety can motivate you to solve problems, create safety, and take action. So experiencing
some anxiety is about caring about life, and because of that I hope that never goes away
completely. Okay. I hope you found this video helpful. If you want to learn more of the in-depth
skills to process emotions and get the workbook with exercises, check out my course How to Process
Your Emotions. The link is in the description. Thank you for watching, and take care.
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"This guide has some great points, especially the focus on breathing and mindfulness. It might be even more helpful if it included examples of how to apply the steps in everyday situations.
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This was helpful thank you
When I’m having these anxiety attacks. They can last for days.
I can’t watch tv. Can’t eat. Have trouble sleeping.
And feel exhausted.
It doesn’t feel like a bit of worry. It feels like terror
You can also read the book How To Stop Worrying and Start Living by Dale Carnegie. Thank me later.
Time will take care of everything. It will be alright
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Fear stops life. Anxiety is one of the worst afflictions I've ever suffered from and it's hard to engage with exercises that help reduce those intense feelings when you're stuck in fight or flight. I try to acknowledge my anxiety and carry on with my day.
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I am at the end of a PhD program.i have to submit my edited dissertation proposal. I have many other things on my brain dump plist but this is the most important to me. It has been nearly 3 years that I couldve been done, but I find anxiety shuts me down when I want to work on it. I break down, go to my hiding space, and become physically unable to work on it.
Let me tell you sitting in anxiety dosent help you just sit there and ruminate even more and make the situation worse. Your head starts to kill you.
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Tense shoulders, tight stomach (not peeing, eating or not feeling hungry or overeating at times) unable to sleep, can’t recall or remember things.
Im really worried about school it’s my final year and I’m just falling apart
I was on birth control, got dizzy.. got off birth control medication.. however, I started getting awful Anxiety! It’s worse when I drive even short distances.. I’m so sick of this ! Went to ER and urgent care.. was given anxiety meds but they make me sleepy during the day which defeats the purpose of!! I must drive, I must go on with my daily life! I keep watching videos and praying for full healing. I’m a person of faith, I’m challenging my anxiety.. it’s worse when I’m alone.. I’ve told anxiety “ bring it on”!!! Then I get really scared. Growing up, I’ve always been a bit more on the frightful side.. God help us All !
How do i deal with swollen lymph nodes? Am i supposed to lean into this feeling easily?
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I wish I had the vocabulary to name feelings specifically.😂
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Easier said than done
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For me, it's sleep. I'm afraid of trying to sleep. There's nothing to distract my mind. My heart rate goes up like I'm running, I can hear it in my head.