6 small habits can CHANGE your life (21 day plan)
Discover the science behind making and breaking habits with Dr. Andrew Huberman. In this video, he shares simple, actionable tips rooted in neuroscience to help you build better routines and eliminate bad habits. Plus, learn his easy-to-follow 21-day plan to kickstart lasting change in your life.
00:00 Intro
00:21 The value of habits
00:58 21 day plan to build habits
01:32 Permission to fail
02:10 Avoid punishing yourself
02:33 After the 21 days
03:04 Habit review & assessment
03:55 Repeat the process
04:33 Bad habits
04:56 Neuroscience of bad habits
05:16 The behavioral level: reflexive habits
06:24 The traditional approaches
07:06 The key to breaking habits
07:52 Replacement behaviors
08:46 Why it works
09:23 Remapping your neural circuits
10:38 Choosing a replacement behavior
This video is a condensed and highly edited version of the full 110 minute podcast from @HubermanLab. We highly recommend watching the full episode and following the pod.
Andrew D. Huberman is an American neuroscientist and tenured associate professor in the department of neurobiology and psychiatry and behavioral sciences at Stanford University School of Medicine.
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today we're talking all about habits making and breaking various habits many people are thinking about New Year's resolutions they're thinking about leaving some things behind and acquiring some new behaviors I'm also going to spell out two specific types of habit formation and habit breaking programs I'm going to boil these down to some very explicit steps that anyone can use I think we can all appreciate the value of having habits habits organize our Behavior into more or less reflexive action so we don't have to think too much and then of course habits can be more elaborate too we can be in the habit of exercising at a particular time of day we can be in the habit of eating certain foods we can be in the habit of saying or not saying certain things but of course there are many habits that don't serve us well or that perhaps even undermine our immediate and long-term health goals and psychological goals and even some habits that can really undermine our overall life goals So today we're going to talk about making meaning forming and breaking meaning stopping various habits I want to spell out a particular system that I could be very useful to most if not all people for how to build in habits and then to test whether or not those habits have really stuck so basically what this involves is you set out to perform six new habits per day across the course of 21 days why six and why 21 well we'll talk about that in a moment but the idea is you write down six things that you would like to do every day for 21 days however the expectation is that you'll only complete four to five of those each day so built into this is a kind of permission to fail but it's not failure because it turns out that this approach to forming habits is based not so much on the specific habits that you're trying to form but the habit of Performing habits it's the habit of doing a certain number of things per day so 21 days you list out four to five things so it might be Zone 2 cardio resistance training sunlight viewing could be journaling it could be learning a language mathematics again this is going to vary depending on your particular goals and the habits that you're trying to create but no more than six and the expectation is that you're not going to perform more than four to five if you miss a day meaning you don't perform four to five things there is no punishment and in fact it's important that you don't actually try and do what in the literature is called a habit slip compensation which is just fancy psychological language for if you screw up and you don't get all four or five in one day you don't do eight the next day in order to compensate after 21 days you stop engaging in this 21-day deliberate four to five things per day type schedule and you simply go into autopilot you ask yourself how many of those particular habits that I was deliberately trying to learn in the previous 21 days are automatically incorporated into my schedule how many of them am I naturally doing in other words every 21 days you don't update and start adding new habits you simply try and maintain the ones that You' built in that first 21 days and this is extremely useful I believe because it will allow you to assess whether or not you can indeed make room if you even have room I should say for more habits right many people are trying to cram so many new behaviors into their nervous system that they don't stand a chance of learning all those behaviors what you may find is that you kept up two of those things very consistently throughout the 21 days and perhaps there was one of them that you did sporadically and that there were three others that frankly you didn't manage to execute you may also be one of these people one of these mutants that sets out to do six new things per day for 21 days and performs every single one of them terrific more power to you in that case for the following 21 days let's see whether or not you can continue to perform those very same six things every day for 21 days and then and only then would you want to add more habits in so you could repeat this 21-day process you know 21 days of of new habit 21 days of testing those new habits as whether or not they're reflexive or not you could do that U forever if you wanted but the idea is that this isn't something that you're doing all year long it's that you perhaps starting the new year or regardless of when you're listening to this you set out to make that 21-day really the stimulus period in which the habits get wired in and then the following month and maybe even the following months or periods of 21 days are really the kind of thermometer or the test bed of how well you've embedded those particular habits thus far we've almost exclusively been discussing how to form habits but what about breaking habits certainly many people out there would like to break habits that they feel don't serve them well one of the challenges in Breaking Habits is that many habits occur very very quickly and so there isn't an opportunity to intervene until the Habit has already been initiated and in some cases completed if a set of neurons is very electrically active it's likely that over time time those neurons will communicate with themselves more easily because of changes in things like nmda receptor activity the recruitment of additional receptors Etc it's essentially a cellular and molecular explanation for how something goes from unlearned to learned to reflexive in order to identify a specific protocol that one could apply in order to break habits how do you take two neurons that underly a habit out of synchrony how do you get them to fire asynchronously this is pretty interesting with to The Cellar molecular biology but at the behavioral level it's especially interesting the way that one would do this is let's say for instance you have a habit of picking up your phone mid work session okay that's a reflexive habit I think that most people have experienced we often hear the idea that oh you know the phone is so filled with access to dopamine and incredible things that we're just drawn to it but if you notice what's happened with phone use over time most people including myself sometimes I admit find ourselves just looking at our phone or find ourselves in a particular app without actually having engaged in the conscious set of steps of oh I'm really curious what's going on in this particular app I'm really curious what's going on in this particular website you just sort of find yourself doing it because the behavior of picking up your phone is sort of reflexive or has become fully reflexive so the literature says there are a number of ways to break these sorts of Habitual behaviors or reflexive behaviors most of those approaches involve establishing some sort of reward for not performing the activity or some sort of punishment performing the activity the problem is when people are not being monitored for habit use for instance you can imagine a situation where you say I'm not going to pick up my phone for the four hours in the early part of the day so that I can get you know real dedicated focused work done um unless someone's monitoring them then people don't tend to monitor themselves completely enough that they punish themselves completely enough that they break the behavior in other words the punishment isn't bad enough in order to break the habit which just speaks to how powerful these habits are once they become reflexive they're just very very hard to override so it turns out that the key is actually to take the period immediately following the bad habit execution meaning let's say you tell yourself you're not going to pick up your phone you're not going to bite your nails you're not going to reflexively walk to the refrigerator at a particular time of day but you find yourself doing it anyway and what actually has to happen is bringing conscious awareness to the period immediately afterward which I think most people recognize they realize oh I just did it again I just did it again and in that moment capture the sequence of events not that led to the bad habit execution but actually to take advantage of the fact that the neurons that were responsible for generating that bad habit were active a moment ago and to actually engage in a replacement Behavior immediately afterward now this is really interesting and I think powerful because I would have thought that you have to engage in a replacement behavior that truly replaces the bad habit Behavior right uh that you would have to be able to identify your state of mind or the sequence of events leading into the bad habit but rather the stage or the period immediately after the bad habit execution is a unique opportunity to insert a different type of what we would call adaptive Behavior but that could be any Behavior that's not in line with the bad behavior so let's give it an example let's say you find yourself um you're trying to do focused work you pick up your phone you're disappointed yourself for for picking up your phone you could of course just put it down or and re-engage in the work Behavior but if you were good at that then you probably wouldn't have done it in the first place and so what turns out to be very effective is to go engage in some other positive habit now this has two major effects the first one is you start to link in time the execution of a bad behavior to this other good behavior and in doing so you start to recruit other neural circuits other neurons that can start to somewhat dismantle the sequence of firing associated with the bad behavior in other words you start to create a kind of a double habit that starts with a bad habit and then ends with a good habit and that seems to create a enough of a temporal mismatch so that then recognizing when you're heading toward the bad habit becomes more apparent to you so as I mentioned before this might seem counterintuitive you might think why would I want to reward the execution of a bad habit with a good habit I don't want to reward myself for the bad habit but really what you're trying to do is you're trying to change the nature of the neural circuits that are firing so that you can rewrite the script for that bad habit what this does then is it changes the whole nature of the sequence of neurons that are firing from Bad Habit through to the end of this newly applied good habit so this is the way in which you start to dismantle or when I say dismantle really weaken the likelihood that if Neuron a fires neuron B will fire and in doing so you create a chain of neuronal activation that then is very easy to dismantle and so when people have applied this kind of approach it removes the need to have constant conscious awareness of One's Own Behavior prior to that behavior which is very very difficult to achieve rather what they find is that they are able to engage in remapping of the neural circuits associated with bad habits in ways that are very very very straightforward right because you can always identify when you've done the thing you don't want to do and then tack onto that something additional that's positive now the nature of that positive thing is important you don't want it to be something that's very hard to execute you want it to be something that's positive and fairly easy to execute so that you're not struggling all the time to insert this on top of this bad behavior whatever that bad behavior might happen to be but again this is rooted in the biology of long-term depression it Maps very well to the behavioral change literature that I was able to glean that really shows that rather than just get reminders rather than try and instill punishment rather than setting up reward for Breaking Bad Habits that perhaps the simplest way to approach this is to tack on additional behaviors to the bad habits make sure those behaviors are good behav [Music]
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Waking up at 5:30 in morning
Not touching phone for 4 hrs in morning
Taking 15 mint of sunlight in morning
Studying 4 hrs in a day
Daily read newspaper
Not biting nail
I really think you need to use easy words.
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love it – challenge accepted:
1. no phone for the first hours of the day
2. drink lemon water first
3. set an intention for the day
4. workout, sauna or go for a walk
5. focus on my studies and complete 3 chapters
6. cook at home
This is a very practical and insightful question. Dr. Huberman shares a very effective strategy: as soon as you catch yourself engaging in a bad habit (e.g., pulling out your phone during work), immediately add a positive alternative behavior. This creates a “time overlap” between the old and new behavior, gradually changing the neural circuitry in a beneficial direction.
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I'm pretty sure andrew Huberman has literally nothing to do with this account.
interesting. i wonder if he is still 'in the habit ' of lying too and dating a half dozen woman at once, acting like a psycho…
This was a really informative episode on the science of habit formation and breaking. I found the "Law of 100" approach to building habits fascinating, especially the emphasis on the habit of performing habits itself. The idea of using the period after a bad habit to insert a positive replacement behavior is also counterintuitive, yet it makes logical sense in terms of rewiring neural pathways. I'm curious, have you tried either of these techniques, and what were your experiences?
Thanks for the Inspiration contained in this video ❤❤❤
What does “ 2:31 – you dont do eight the next day in order to compensate” mean.. i dont get it?
Consistent habits can transform any part of life, from productivity to mindset.
Journaling
Read Bible
Workout/stretch
Podcast
Meditate 5 min
Socialize/network
Started good and dlthen fell asleep 13 times listening to it
i got my attention span so low that i'm forcing my self to watch this
1. Wake up at 4am
2. Read a page
3. Easy run 3km
4. Eat a high protein breakfast
5. Lift weights
6. Study
Yo didnt say why 21 days
Thanks for so much for all the video I have learnt so much from you
What could be a replacement behavior for biting nails?
I like the concept, but after thinking about some of my bad habits like staying up late, having a mind-altering substance, not drinking enough water, some of these habits would be harder to immediately do a good habit- I stay up late and then the good habit is sleep? I have an edible- but then it has lasting effects on my mind even if I go do something positive? I notice at the end of the day I didn't drink water so I down a glass? Anyone else struggling with these things?
Does anyone have any ideas of good habits to tac onto picking up your phone mid focus session? I’ve been leaving my phone outside the room or in a draw and having a postit note next to me to write the things like “oh email them” “oh check that” etc. rather than acting on it immediately with my phone.
Bit late to the video but I've already been
1. Bed at 10pm, wake at 7am (done mostly daily, wake up time is harder, sometimes not up until 7.30/8, especially if exercising the day before, need to make 10pm 9.30pm on those days i think)
2. Meditate (done daily 5-30mins depending on time i have available)
3.Positive self talk (done daily, using sticky notes to remind me and youtube affirmations)
4. Skincare (done 95% of time)
5. 2 bottles water (only doing 1ish, i need to fill 2 in the morning and take them with me as i only do one atm)
Just trying to hone these and make them work and last. I'm falling down but getting back up every time. I will master theae habits! 😊
Mine are:
1. Meditation
2. Walking
3. Journaling
4. Book reading
5. Push ups.
6. wake up at 5 am
This may not apply to all phases of life. This seems like the treadmill approach to a younger career oriented person. Constant activity.
Mine are (I used to be a runner and athlete, now in perimenopause only 47 but struck with aches and pains, fatigue, low mood and hormone therapy only made me suicidal…..)
* Get up each day * Get outside each day
❤ Usually I open the bathroom window and stick my tired face out. Listening for birds, feeling the air, testing if I have a sense of smell which was almost lost during covid… then something awakens and I can do another day ❤
1 study
2 clean
3 not sleep during the day.
4 exercise
5 sleep early
6 meditate
1 study
2 clean
3 not sleep during the day.
4 exercise
5 sleep early
6 meditate
mine:
1) Language studying 1-2 hours
2) waking up early
3) Eating healthy food and cuting sugar
4) reading at least 2 books a month
5) Not smoking and drinking
6) socialize more
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Wow!Amazing video ..mastt
water the plants
read a book
journal
workout in the gym
i hate studying but studying
meditation
So what are the 6 habits? His communication style is long winded and needs clarity.
How to fix your life in 3 months:
1. Cut out porn, alcohol & junk food
2. Go beast mode in the gym 5x per week
3. Read 1 book per month (start with Ascendarium)
4. Improve social skills – cold approach, speak with confidence
5. Work 10x harder than your competition
Give this 90 days and you will be unrecognizable.
One bad habit was able to stop is biting my nails. I started filing and clipping them, which was the newly applied good habit
Mine are:
1. Do 1 Spanish lesson on Duolingo
2. 5000 steps
3. Stretch/rollout
4. Break a sweat
5. Read 10 pages
6. Drink 2L of water
Thank you ❤ What is the difference between a gain and gratitude for the purpose of this exercise?
OK, real talk—how many of you are guilty of just mindlessly scrolling through your phone when you should be working? This video has me thinking about how to actually fix it. 😬📱