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6 Crucial Signs Your Man Needs Therapy | Men's Mental Health Awareness
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In this video, in the spirit of June being Men's Mental Health Month, I will talk about 6 signs your man needs therapy, help or counseling.
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what's going on YouTube world this is your guy SS the man thank you for coming back on another nighttime edition episode it's been a while since I made one of these right yeah let's get back to it on tonight I'm going to talk about something something of love and something of pain at the same time something that you ladies need to know truly and seriously about your man if y'all didn't know June is men's mental health month which brings awareness to men that it's okay to not be okay that it's okay to go out and get help that those thoughts that we have every single day are a part of who we are and that if we deem it necessary to be attended to to talk to someone about it to be helped on with it then that's okay as y'all know I talk about in a lot of my videos when it comes to understanding men and how they think and how our minds work is that a lot of us are not well Adept in expressing ourselves or talking about the things that goes on in our heads even to our lady even to our woman our life partner our loved one and that sucks me telling y'all from the mind of a man that's a sucky feeling but on this month we're going to bring awareness to that and in this video we're going to talk about the serious signs that your man needs help that he needs a therapist that he needs an outside assistance that he needs a counselor that he needs serious prayer he needs help and the scariest part of not knowing who's going through it is that you may not know because they seem so happy they seem real good they're giving you advice on things but little do people know the people that help the most are usually the ones that need help the most all right but before I get started make sure yall subscribe to me hit that subscribe button below for more videos on understanding the mind of men and how men think like comment and tell me your comments in the section below all right so a couple weeks ago or I would say three or two weeks ago there was a golfer his name was Grayson Murray there was a tour going on and he went out he played his golf game had a decent game talked to everybody normally or that was on a golf course went back to his hotel room and the next day he was found dead by Suicide none of those golfers or those people that was at that course knew that Grayson Murray was going through something so sad and depressing and scary that he felt like he needed to end his life maybe he felt like he had no one to talk to even though he was in a relationship maybe he felt like it couldn't be fixed maybe he didn't have God in his life maybe maybe maybe but it is important to see the signs or detect the signs or to check on your man and to check his mental temperature to put in that effort to see if if he's truly okay because I've realized in my life and in the experiences and the friends I've lost is that the ones that had the biggest smile on the outside had an upside down smile on the inside and that's unfortunate so the first sign that your guy may need outside help that he may need some kind of mental assistance or something is that he always exhibits happiness as I talked about earlier people who who show happiness the most are usually the ones who feel Sadness the most the thing with emotions are there's super spikes in it so you can feel super happy one day and feel super sad one day if that is your personality trait you are more prone to feel the Heights and the lows of lows when it comes to emotions just because you see someone always happy and they exhibit High happiness just remember that that same energy that they're feeling or that same energy that they put into their happiness can also be felt in their lows of lows super depression super sadness there's no middle ground for some people like that and I've noticed that people who are super happy are usually lightning rods of Good Vibes of good energy and people want to be around people like that because it inspires them to be happy when they're going through their things but being a lightning rod and being the center of Happiness can drain you when that person gets alone when they're not surrounded by other people they can feel drained because they've exuded so much energy to others that they may not take care of themselves emotions are energy and they can drain you especially for those ones who are super happy all the time so take that consideration if your man is super happy all the time check on him make sure he okay because that can also be a cover up another sign that your man needs help and that he's secretly going through things that he cannot handle himself is a man who brings up old things constantly especially about the heartbreaks of his past now this is Uber important for you as his woman because a man like this has not healed from his past relationships he has not healed from his past trauma he has not healed from his past heartbreaks and that can easy easily leak into your current relationship if it is not tended to a man who all constantly brings up old heartbreaks and old trauma trust issues disappointments and brings that to you and into your relationship is a man who has not healed from those past things now the reason why a man like this needs counseling or some kind of help therapy is because if he doesn't eventually yall going to need together relationship therapy couples therapy because once again he will bring that old baggage those old feelings of disappointment and hurt and stress into your current relationship and now that old relationship that he had is now your problem and you have nothing to do with it a man cannot walk forward until he takes his feet out the mud the next sign that your man needs help therapy counseling is when he is showing signs of giving up from Little emissions to Big emissions when he's become lethargic when he's become lazy when he's become uninspired especially if your man was not like that before if you see this sudden shift into this new stage of laziness or not caring that is a big sign that your man needs help because one thing I know about men about decent men just growing up under my uncles and my grandfather and learning from my mentors is that men love doing men love doing for those who matter the most to him that is an expression of love for men so once you lose that want and that desire to do to do for his woman to do for his children to to do for his loved ones that means there is a shift in him something has caused the chain reaction to the point where he no longer wants to do those cherished and treasured things one of the greatest highlights of being a man something's going on something's wrong when he goes from the prideful strong uplifting eager go-getter man that you always knew when he goes from that to a man who seems like he doesn't care he says I don't know a lot he's doing a lot less he has less energy in the things he do or he doesn't do anything at all take note of that something's wrong because because clearly he's not being himself clearly he's not being the man that you come to love another sign that your man needs help is if he struggles to hold jobs one thing about a man is that he's going to have a job he's going to work and he takes pride in that whether it's using his hands or using his mind or using his mouth and speaking ability he's going to use what he has to work because we know working is how you get things in this life that's what we love to do once you start to see your man struggle with keeping jobs that means there is a disturbance in his mindset his effort and his desires because we know as a man we have to work in order to provide for ours in order to provide for our woman our children if that's applicable our family we know we have to work in order to get a result we know we have to produce in order to bear fruit that's that's just what we know so when he starts to struggle in keeping the thing that produces those results when he struggles withh holding the sources that creates wealth and the Necessities for his loved ones then that is a clear sign of disturbance something is going on with that because one thing about us is that we do not play with our money we do not play with the things that enriches our lives especially when others are involved like our lady another sign that your man needs help something's going on is when he has social withdrawal from you and the family especially the kids when he seems to like disappear go away or fade away when he's at home where it seems like he's not present when it seems like it's always something on his mind you can be having a conversation with him and it seems like he's in Another Universe he's not being present with you he's disappearing for a good amount of times he's making excuses not to be around you he could be doing these things because he is going through a storm a mental storm a spiritual storm he may be fighting demons fighting something on the inside and he doesn't know how to handle it he doesn't want to put this stress or whatever he's going through this disturbance on you so he's withdrawing from you he's not as close anymore he's not as touchy anymore that could be a lot of things could be fear anxiety it could be so many things but clearly one thing that is evident is that he needs help he needs help fighting whatever he's fighting he needs to find a way to get out of that another sign now this is one you can pick up easily especially after a while of talking to him is that he begins to talk about finality a lot more he begins to talk about the end a lot more sometimes to the point where his conversations turn morbid now this is important to notice and I feel like it's easy to notice because anytime you talk about those type of things it brings a different energy to the conversation I know for me personally when someone starts to talk about morbid things or starts to talk about finality or the end especially when it's random like we're not already talking about that you just come out the Woodworks and just start talking about things like that it changes the whole mood of the conversation now I start to get worried now I'm looking at you differently now I'm asking you like yo is everything okay because I know when you start to talk about things like that it's almost as if you're preparing for that specific thing especially if we just having a regular conversation so if you notice he starts to talk about the end a lot or a lot more he might just need help because that may mean he's getting closer to exactly what he's talking about that may mean he's giving up that may mean he's trying to give you a warning without actually saying it because one thing about us is that we love our women decent men good men we love our woman we talk about the future because we want you in it we plan for the future because you are part of our plan we want to be a part of that so if I suddenly start talking about the end a lot more that cut you out because when you talk about the end you are excluding everything and it's just you and the end that is what you're focused on right now because you clearly can't be focused on your woman if you're talking about something that's going to end because when you talk about your woman you're talking about love you're talking about something that grows you're talking about something that is exponential you're talking about something that doesn't stop but when it comes to the end that's a stop there is no more that's a cease that is a halt so definitely take note of your man if he starts to talk talk about the end a lot more finality now I gave you all the signs that your man may need help but I do not like talking about things like this without at least giving some type of solution or Solutions I'll be listing some things down in my description box below if you don't know what to do if you notice these things in your man that may hopefully help just to give some kind of options for youall right you know life is hard I've gone through my mental battles and honestly I'm still going through some things but for me personally I've gotten so much better because of the presence of God in my life I hope to continue to grow that pieace in my life to continue to fight and win those battles that I'm going through and I'm praying the same for you and your man happy men's health month make sure y'all take care of yourselves in every aspect love y'all and I will see y'all in my next video peace and blessings goodbye
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Thank you! These are great points
If my dad, who had a coke habit, could hold down a great paying job with benefits, so can my man. Not saying that I want an addict for a man because I don't. This particular man needs Jesus and therapy!
I appreciate your input. Great video and wisdom. May God continue to bless you so you may continue to bless us. ❤
What a touching video about the man that took his life is so sad and scary bcuz as you stated Sealz is that no one knew of his pain he seemed to be happy but he wasn’t, I will be very mindful of this with my guy. Thanks 🙏🏽
Only you , the gift to humanity. Your wisdom inspires me. Thank you for this important message.
Yes, you are the guy. Your insights are incredible.
I love your videos. Thank-you for posting your perspective. My hubby is Autistic, I find it interesting as some of his ways are just not the same as the men I dated who were neurotypical. I'm enjoying listening to your videos and then looking at how my hubby is similar to the things you explain and also different.
An extremely important subject Sealz thanks for sharing
It's sooo hard for MEN to go get counseling, therapy or to just TALK to anyone!! WHY is that? How can that be changed?
How do you get them to go to therapy…most men think they don’t need it 😌?
Just graduated with my psychology degree and when I tell you I take mental health so seriously!!!!!!!!!😒 these men and humans in general need help ! (Therapy) period . 💯
Thanks so much this has help me i now know what my man is going through, the only problem is it a long distance relationship so how can i help him?
This was such a blessed video. So important to hear for men, how to get help and how to notice the signs, men and women need to be aware of how to pick out signs in men as well as themselves. Thank you so much!
Thank you for the wonderful video and courage of your warning signs… I pray that you stay strong and know what blessing you are to all of your internet sisters ❤
Amen…love your videos…Gb.n ty.
You are indeed my internet bro! Everything you spoke of is so true! Thanks for your videos. It’s really helping me understand men more and see not only where I fell short in the past, but not taking the blame for some things that was on his part. Great advice! Please keep being authentic and sharing your knowledge, morales & heart with us. God bless you.
Thanks bro❤
Just the thought alone its SCARY
If its reality ah its ten times worse
We all got to be attentive
Stay focused and encourage indept conversations
And remember we serve a HUDGE GOD
Much love Sealz our ma
Stay talented and blessed
The more you give the more your cup is half empty. Not just your guy, your man, your husband but also your dad, your sibling brother, your uncle, your nephew, your son. Whatever his title.
Great topic, thank you very much for your thoughts on the subject 🌟